Be Here Now

Be Here Now

The sudden and shocking deaths of Kobe Bryant and his young daughter have been a major wake-up call to all of us about living our best lives now and not putting it off for later. 

How many times have you said, “when I have more money” I will…, When I lose 10 pounds I will…, when I … I will…”

Where is the passion?

We use our creativity to give voice to our passions. The more attention we give to our passions the more they will respond because passions need an outlet.

If you had 10 minutes on a national media outlet to tell the world anything you wanted and knew everyone would listen, what would you say? What have you learned that you want others to know? What do you care most about in your life? What do you want for yourself? Others?

Write them down. These are your passions.

Manifest Your Intentions

If you make the most of the present, you will be more aware of possibilities and will have a better chance of creating the future you desire.

Start taking action on them today: even baby steps count.

Many Blessings,

Barbara

Set Intentions for 2020

I am sitting down to write this after an incredible Vision Workshop where we went deeper than ever before. I feel blessed to have mid-wifed this transformation with a group of people who courageously shared their truth with me and the group. I want to acknowledge each and every one of you for stepping into your authentic power.

So what is next? Having your Ah Ha! Is very powerful, however knowing what to do with the information is another thing.

Remember that improvements in our lives do not happen on their own. As much as we would love to see these changes, they are not just magically delivered to our door like an Amazon package. We need to be the initiators in the positive changes we want to see and the Universe will then support us by sending us resources.

We have the choice to do things differently or fall back into our old routines that may not support our new choices.

What do you hope for this coming year that is different from other years? How do you want to improve your life this year? How do you want to be different by Jan 2021?

Then ask yourself: “What can I do alone and where do I require help?”

The time of dysfunctional independence is over.

What do you want to say YES to today?

Many Blessings,

Barbara

Choices you make today will impact your future.

On Friday night I shared this story while teaching at the New York Open Center and many participants asked me to send them a copy, so I thought I would share it with all of you as well.

A Spiritual Teaching Story

An elderly carpenter was ready to retire.

He told his employer-contractor of his plans to leave the house-building business and live a more leisurely life with his wife, enjoying his extended family. He would miss the paycheck, but he needed to retire. They could get by.

The contractor was sorry to see his good worker go and asked if he could build just one more house as a personal favor.

The carpenter said yes, but in time, it was easy to see that his heart was no longer in his work. He resorted to shoddy workmanship and used inferior materials. It was an unfortunate way to end a dedicated career.

When the carpenter finished his work, the employer came to inspect the house. He handed the front-door key to the carpenter.

"This is your house" he said, "my gift to you".

The carpenter was shocked! What a shame! If he had only known he was building his own house, he would have done it all so differently.

It is the same with us.  We build our lives, a day at a time, often putting less than our best into the building. Then with a shock, we realize we have to live in the house we have built. If we could do it over, we'd do it much differently.

But we cannot go back. Each one of us is the carpenter. Each day we hammer a nail, place a board, or erect a wall.

"Life is a do-it-yourself project," someone has said. Your attitudes and the choices you make today, build the "house" you live in tomorrow.
 

Build wisely!

Work like you don't need the money.

Love like you've never been hurt.

Dance like nobody's watching.

I hosted a free call last week on How to Harness the Power of 2020. If you weren't able to attend live, you can watch the replay HERE. 

What You Must Do To Create Change in 2020

I love how Colette Baron-Reid described 2019 - ”Like being caught in a snow globe and having some big green giant alien shaking it while you are trying unsuccessfully to hold on to your world while watching everything get turned upside down.”

That being said, I have been contemplating what really creates change and transformation. As I threw cards for myself this year, a pattern appeared that I want to share with you.
 

1. You need peace of mind: it is important to  find ways to deal with worry, fear and over-analyzing. If we move into “what if” and “if only”, our energy drops and we don’t have the clarity or energy to create what we most desire.

2. Let go of the old outdated forms. Yes, sometimes it is challenging to say, “this is over”, however you cannot outperform your old self-image of yourself, your business or your creative projects. The past is over.

3. Having strong boundaries. This one has been topping my list. When I don’t honor my boundaries and go into an over-giving pattern, I become drained and depleted. Then all I want to do is stay in bed binging Netflix.

4. Radical Self Care. The more things change, the more it is important to take care of basics like sleep, exercise, healthy eating and meaningful connections.

5. Fun. This goes with self-care. I know that many times I am just too serious and need the magic and wonder of simply having a good belly laugh, playing and expressing the silly part of me.

6. In moments of doubt and confusion - wait. Without quiet and contemplation, I do not have the resources or true guidance I need to move forward. Then I tend to ask too many people’s opinions which can create more confusion.

7. Have a strategic plan; you can always adjust later, however being organized and systematic really helps move you forward. Set achievable goals and then acknowledge the successes. Whenever you set intention and then succeed, you increase your brain’s awareness of your ability to create success. It does not matter if they are small or large successes.

8. Find support - stretch outside of your comfort network. You are who you surround yourself with. Let go of being dysfunctionally independent. By the way, your friends may not be the best people to advise you, so expand your network.

Tune in on Wednesday to my FREE ZOOM CALL “Harness the Power of 2020” where I will give you tips on how to Level UP for 2020. 8pm - 8:30pm EST. Click HERE for details. 

Work With Barbara
Now is the time to get support for your own Vision. Book a reading or private ritual to give you the clarity and support you desire. Contact Barbara@BarbaraBiziou.com for details. 

Many Blessings, 
Barbara

The Time for Creating is Now

Honestly, it is hard to wrap my head around the concept of 2020. Seems like yesterday (and a million years ago)  that we were contemplating the turn of the century.

I started off 2000 leading a ritual in a cave in Bali. I was surrounded by an incredible group of people from all over the world integrating ancient Balinese rituals with modern ones. We were hopeful, open and curious.

Over the past 20 years, I have led rituals around the world, comforted people in the midst of tragedies, celebrated birthdays, weddings, new births (now have 9 healthy babies born after fertility rituals) and opened many Broadway Shows. I have experienced the loss of loved ones, officiated the weddings of my son and brother (yes I married my son and brother!) and traveled to India, Cuba, Amsterdam, France, Prague, Italy, Hawaii, Mexico and many cities in the US.

I am still hopeful, open and curious.

2020 gives us the opportunity to do things in a different way. It is time to shine your light, dare to dream and create strong communities that will stabilize and sustain us in the next decade. 

The time of silence is over. The time of “fixing” is over. The time for creating is now.

As always, to start the year off right, I am offering my FREE 12-day intention intensive. You will be receiving one mp3 daily starting tomorrow to guide you in setting intention for 2020. As my teacher Omraam Mikhael  Aivanhov taught, the first 12 days of the year set intention for the entire year. If your friends want to receive these, have them sign up for my newsletter HERE.

And to lighten your spirits, here is my favorite Prosperity Ritual to do on New Year’s Day. 

Get a bowl or basket

Fill it with coins

Bless the coins for everything you desire in 2020 (health, a project, new home, love, etc.)

Anytime after midnight on New Year’s eve, go to your front door and throw the coins into your home - you can also do this for your office

Keep them there for 24 hours

Give them away (to a friend or stranger)

This ritual affirms that you have more than enough to be generous

P.S. - Don’t forget to wear new red underwear to bring in passion this year! 

Check out Soulfulliving.com on January 1st. For their 25th anniversary I have written an article on starting the year with conscious rituals.

Will you join me for VISION 2020:LEVEL UP? I urge you to give yourself the gift of support, practical spiritual tools and inspiration to start off 2020. This weekend is packed with rituals, sound-healing, drumming, meditation, art and delicious tea. It is a life-changing experience.  It is a time to RECALIBRATE and assimilate the next level of your gifts and talents. This is the shift that will make a difference. I want you to live your life to the fullest! Payment plans are available.

But don’t take my word for it, hear what others have to say...

Work with Barbara

It’s a new decade and time for a personal reading to gain clarity into the past, current and future events. Contact me at Barbara@BarbaraBiziou.com for details. 

Many Blessings, 

Barbara

Make Your Holidays Holy Days - My article on Soulfulliving.com

I wrote the following article for Soulfulliving.com which will be featured on their website on New Years Day to celebrate their 20th anniversary. Check it out HERE!

The time for pushing is over.

The time for allowing is NOW.

Transformation is remembering who you are.

Just about everyone celebrates Christmas, Hanukkah, or Kwanzaa. Unfortunately, when most of us commemorate such special days, we rarely think about, and in some cases do not even know, that many of these holidays--holy days--date back thousands of years and were originally created to mark the changing of seasons and other happenings in nature. Even worse, as our celebrations have become less about meaning and more about material concerns--getting presents or wearing new outfits--holidays can be both stressful and laden with unrealistic expectations. 

Remember as you get caught up in the routines and busyness of your life, you get lost in secondary choices and lose focus on your higher vision. Make sure you take time to nurture your soul and body.

Turn this holiday into a meaningful occasion.

You'll be surprised how easy it is to turn holiday occasions that you normally take for granted, or move through without thinking, into a meaningful ritual. Instead of just coming up with a guest list and planning the usual gatherings, if you slow down, realize that you're taking part in a time-honored tradition that connects you to your past, and concentrate on your intention --to commemorate an important holy day--you will get deeper meaning and a greater sense of connectedness out of each occasion. 

To restore meaning to our holiday traditions, we can look to our own roots, explore the practices of our ancestors, and even borrow from ancient cultures to celebrate holidays in a new way at these celebrations. Let this year be a living ritual to peace and understanding.

Whether you are lighting Hanukkah candles, looking at the lights on a Christmas tree or lighting the candles of Kwanzaa, I want to invite you to take a moment and reflect on all the ways that Light can dispel the darkness. Let the light be a reminder that we are sparks of Divine Light.

Rituals to End the Year

1. Do not answer your phone on the first ring or answer an email or text immediately. Instead, take a few deep breaths. This will calm your mind and regulate the stress hormones in your body. You will feel clearer, calmer and make better choices.

2. Take some time to be quiet and reflect on the decade that is drawing to a close. Think about the people who mattered the most to you, your greatest accomplishments, challenging difficulties and the lessons learned.

3. Contemplate the patterns in your life that keep you stuck. Write down the limiting beliefs or habits that you wish to leave behind with the old year. In a fireproof bowl or fireplace, burn the paper. As the paper burns, be aware that you have made space for new ideas, people and opportunities to enter your life. Carefully throw out the ashes when they cool and leave on the earth.

4. Do something you have never done before that brings you joy. Check out some art, listen to music, invite friends for a potluck dinner and ask them to bring food that they loved as a child.

5. Take 5 minutes to focus on peace. Light a candle and imagine the light going out into the world.

6. Forgive, forgive, forgive.

7. Create a gratitude altar. Write down all the things and people that you are grateful for. Write each one on a separate slip of paper and put it in a bowl or basket. Each day pick one name out of the bowl and imagine that you can send and receive love from them/it.

8. Keep in mind that the first 12 days of the year represent the entire year. If you would like some support, sign up for my newsletter at my website and you will receive one "intention intensive" mp3 each day for twelve days, January 1 - 12.

Everything You Do Makes a Difference

Last week we had a freak snow squall that seemed to come out of nowhere. Luckily, a taxi was passing as my friend Susan was trying to get uptown. She started to get in the cab when she heard a woman saying “taxi! taxi!”. Looking around she spotted a small elderly woman bundled up in a large coat. Without giving it a thought Susan reached out to the woman and invited her to get in and share the cab with her.

The woman lived on the far West Side of Manhattan and it took them an extra 20 minutes out of her way, but Susan couldn’t have cared less. And she refused to take any money from the woman.

Driving uptown she started chatting with the woman and asked her about her family and then asked her how old she was. The woman hemmed and hawed about wrinkles and old age and refused to say, but then shared that her birthday was on November 6th. My friend was stunned. Just that morning her daughter had said to her, “Since we are all having dreams about Grandpa (who had passed away in September),  I guess someone has to channel grandma”. Susan’s mother’s birthday was November 6th.

And it gets better.

As they got to the woman’s home, the cab driver said to Susan, “In all my years as a NY cab driver you are the nicest person I have ever had in my car. You make me want to be a better person”.  Then he got out of his cab, opened the back door and escorted the woman to her doorstep. Pretty unheard of in NYC.  

Remember, everything you do or don’t do makes a difference and can change someone’s life. Let us embody this teaching into the coming decade. Ram Dass, one of the great spiritual teachers of our time has just passed on and totally lived this teaching. Let us honor him by doing the same.

To all of you who celebrate Christmas and/or Kwanzaa, many blessings this season! 

I recently wrote an article for MindBodyGreen on rituals to end the year. Check it out HERE. 

Next week I will post my favorite New Year’s Prosperity Ritual along with tips on how to start this new decade. To prepare, make sure you have a new pair of underwear to wear January 1st  (red for passion, pink for love, green for healing, blue for clarity). 

Our office will be closed until Monday, January 6th but registration for VISION 2020 is open and there are Payment plans available. For a small investment in yourself, you can make 2020 a year that will be a game changer. And you will be in the company of amazing men and women from around the country. Check it out HERE! 

And please do share our new updated website with your friends. When they sign up for our newsletter they will receive a free meditation on Releasing Anxiety and Worry.

Many Blessings, 

Barbara

Here Comes the Light!

Both the Winter Solstice (Saturday, Dec. 21st) and Hanukkah (Sunday, Dec. 22nd) celebrate the miracle of light and renewed hope. Both will be celebrated this weekend.

I don’t know about you, but I could use some extra light in my life. The world is going through unprecedented chaos and we have been navigating uncharted territory this past year. Everything seems upside down.

Yet, deep in my heart, I know that change is good, and nothing can stay the same without stagnating. The key is knowing what you can change yourself and where you need support. There is no shame in not knowing. You cannot know everything. Ask for help.

As we move closer to the Winter Solstice it is important, one more time, to venture inward and take the time to rest, rejuvenate and revision our lives and our world. Not easy at this time of year, but crucial.

See if you can look at your life as it is, not as you had hoped it would be at this time. Being fully present with NOW can empower you to make conscious choices that will propel you forward.

If you find you need an energy boost, try using color therapy. It has been known for eons of time that color plays a major role in setting up a particular mood or state of mind. Color does affect one's feelings, moods, and emotions.

Today I am wearing orange to bring me a higher frequency of joy. And I even painted my nails with a sparkling turquoise! Watch my video on the Power of Color to find out more. 

As a holiday thank you for being in my community, I am gifting all of you with my newest meditation Releasing Anxiety and Worry. Share my website with your friends and they will receive this free gift as well!

Ritual for The Winter Solstice

Place some gold glitter in a bowl of water.

Light a candle to bring light and prosperity into your life and into the world.

Honor the Spiritual Beings for blessing us with their light.

Dip your hand in the water and sprinkle the glitter “sunshine” on your hair or anoint your hands or face. 

If you are with others, let each person anoint another. You might also want to play a song that brings in the spirit of light like the classic “This little light of mine” 

Next week I will share some of my favorite ways to end the year consciously and my favorite prosperity ritual to start off the New Year.

Let Your Vision Pull You Up!

For the past two days I have had a really bad sore throat and lost my voice. Since I could not talk, I decided to go through notes I have been making about my Vision Weekend in January.

What popped out for me was the research that has shown that you do not have to be motivated in order to plan and act. A vision can mobilize motivation. Even professional athletes drag themselves to the gym, get started, and when they get in motion, they access a motivated state. Waiting until you get the energy to take action on your vision doesn’t work; you have to take action in order to get the energy to do your vision.

So this morning, even though I still didn’t feel great, I took a shower, washed my hair, and instead of staying in my pjs, got dressed and put on some makeup.

Instantly, I felt better.

A friend of mine recently told me that while going through chemo she wanted to look as good as she could because it made her feel better. And hospitals are now encouraging their patients to comb their hair and put on fresh bedclothes.

The key is to move into alignment with our intentions and goals. Then we can gain clarity and momentum. When we are out of alignment we end up sabotaging ourselves and our energy goes down.

Let your vision pull you up.

And that is why I am such a big believer in coming together as a community to dream big and allow your new vision for your life to unfold.

Join me at VISION 2020 to put your thoughts into action and craft your expanded vision for the new year!

Work with Barbara

I will be taking my annual “solar return” trip from November 26th to December 8th so time is limited to next week or mid-December to take advantage of my one on one readings, rituals or coaching sessions before the end of this year.

VISION 2020 is now open for enrollment. Our new space is amazing and the energy coming in for 2020 is off the charts. I will be taking a meditation retreat at the beginning of December to go in and see what Spirit has in store for us and what tools will be the most useful for us to have.

This weekend workshop is worth well over $2500 but is available to you for only $595. Sign up now and bring your friends!

Many Blessings,

Barbara

What Has Been on Cosmic Layaway for You?

As I was reading Molly McCord’s astrological take on November a phrase jumped out at me: cosmic layaway. What a concept!

To paraphrase her, November gives us the opportunity to connect to what is calling to you, release old negative karmic patterns and open to what might have been dreams and visions that you desired back in 2006/2007. They have simply been on cosmic layaway and a return is coming so be aware.

As I was musing on what was going on in my life at that time, a light went off. That was when I appeared as a life coach on the hit series 30 Days (produced and directed by Morgan Spurlock).

It was even more interesting because last Saturday night at a Krishna Das Concert, a guy came up to me and asked me if I was the life coach on 30 Days! He was a NY Firefighter and told me he had watched the episode many times with his girlfriend and loved it. You cannot make this stuff up! You can still see it streaming on Amazon. I am in the episode called The New Age – season 2 Episode 4.

Hmmmm, so does this mean I am supposed to do more media? Maybe. I do enjoy it. Only time will tell…

What was going on in your life in 2006/2007? Take some time to go in and see what is calling you that may have been on “cosmic layaway.”

Work with Barbara

I will be taking my annual “solar return” trip from November 26th to December 8th so time is limited to next week or mid-December to take advantage of my one on one readings, rituals or coaching sessions before the end of this year.

VISION 2020 is now open for enrollment. Our new space is amazing and the energy coming in for 2020 is off the charts. I will be taking a meditation retreat at the beginning of December to go in and see what Spirit has in store for us and what tools will be the most useful for us to have.

This weekend workshop is worth well over $2500 but is available to you for only $595. Sign up now and bring your friends!

Many Blessings,

Barbara

Make a Commitment to Yourself

As I was organizing my office, I came across a commitment contract that I had written to myself. As I read the words I could feel the power and spiritual support it gave me.

It is important to take the time to re-commit to what has heart and meaning to you. So, I encourage you to make yourself a priority and make an intention vow to living your life as a powerful creator.

Here is the contract I made to myself. Feel free to copy and create one for yourself.

I promise to love myself completely and with gentle compassion, to console and comfort myself during difficult times, to encourage myself to achieve my full potential, to be truthful and honest with myself and to cherish myself or as long as I shall live.

I now take a stand for my greatness and commit to living my life as a powerful creator.

I am excited to announce that we have found the perfect space for VISION 2020.

We’ll be hosting VISION at Meet on Chrystie. The space is like a creative incubator filled with incredible art, comfortable couches and chairs and plenty of room for your Vision Collage Creation.

We will be joined by the incredible sound healer, Joule L’Adara, and special guest Emily Fletcher – founder of Ziva Meditation and author of Stress Less, Accomplish More.

Of course, no Vision is complete without tea from Miriam Novalle of T-Salon and our drumming circle lead by Jan Goldstoff.

2020 is like no other year that you have experienced. 2020 is not the time to patch your boat: it is a time to build a new one. a new foundation that will last for years. Think of yourself as the architect of your soul.

Are you ready to commit to stepping into your power? Are you ready to receive love, success and creative expression? Do you want to make more of an impact in your community and in the world?

If so, then VISION 2020 is for you! Sign Up Here

Work with Barbara

Through interactive groups, intuitive tarot readings, rituals and practical techniques to embody emotional intelligence, you will connect to your power and lead a joyful life. Call our office at 212-741-3358 or reply to this email for details.

Many Blessings,

Barbara

My Top Tips to Make Lasting Changes in Your Life

Everyone I know (including myself) seems to be in “re-invention” mode. Which got me thinking about what is called for when you desire to make real changes in your life.

Here is what I came up with:

• Take really good care of your body; eat well, sleep and exercise.

• Take an inventory of what you are spending your time on. Be honest; What is working? What is not?

• Recycle inspiration; great dreams should not be thrown out, but maybe they need to be approached from a new perspective.

• Expand your network. New people can open your mind and give you fresh new ideas.

• Deepen your spiritual practice; ask Spirit for guidance.

• Make time for simple pleasures and joy.

• Appreciate and show gratitude for what you do have.

• Tame your inner critic.

• Embrace change.

• Up your bandwidth for receiving gifts from The Universe.

Recently, many of you have asked about my magical aromatherapy sprays. Please note that effective November 1st, the price will be going up to $25 per bottle. We use the highest quality organic ingredients and all of our sprays are handmade in small batches which makes them all the more special!

We have the following scents:

Happiness: Brings in joy

Unplug: Calms you down

Focus: Opens your intuition

Protect: Shields your energy

Space: Clears negative energy

Grounded: Brings you into your physical body

Magnet: Brings in money and financial resources

Power: Activates your innate power and confidence

Manifest: Helps with visualizing and creating success

Love: Opens your heart and makes you magnetic towards love

Grab a bottle today!

Work with Barbara

The crazier the world becomes, the more important it is to be the calm you are desiring to bring into your life. The first step is getting clarity on where you are in your journey and where you need some “spiritual and physical feng shui”. As you transform the old, you have space to upgrade your life to a new level of success, joy and innovation.

Book now for a private reading /ritual with Barbara. Barbara is also available to come to your office to do an inspirational talk on Ending the Year Consciously. Call our office at 212-741-3358 or reply to this email for details.

Many Blessings,

Barbara

We’ve Moved into the Season to Release and Let Go

We have entered into a new season and for many cultures we are also entering into a New Year. I have been meditating on what it will take to allow me to move into the future with expanded creativity, focus and awareness.

One of my favorite rituals at this time of year is the ritual of Tashlich…it is a symbolic releasing of our sins (meaning to go astray) into the water. What I love about it is the connection between our taking action to release, and the helping hand that comes from Spirit. As we move into action…spirit comes to help us. This year it is held on Monday Sept 30th.

Traditionally we throw small pieces of bread into moving water. This way the bread feeds the birds and fishes. Each piece represents the things that blind us to our own truth. We release anything that we have done by our words, deeds or actions that have harmed others or ourselves. We release our sense of inadequacy, our limiting viewpoints, and anything that has hardened our hearts. In fact, the biggest sin is the one of forgetting our own Divinity and connection to God. My Rabbi David Ingber calls it a ritual of scrubbing the soul clean.

Even if this is not in your tradition, I recommend you try this ritual.

• Reflect on the past year and focus on the things that you are ready to cast off.

• Take small pieces of bread and throw them into moving water. If you are not near water, take a bowl and throw them in the bowl.

• Throw away the pain from the past.

• Throw away the judgments that keep you from seeing the bigger picture.

• Throw away the resentments and anger that keep your heart closed.

• Throw away the “shoulds” and “coulds”.

• Throw away the need to compare yourself to others.

• Throw away anything that keeps you small and stuck.

Throw away any fear, anger or resentment you are holding about our upcoming election in the US.

“May your actions transform this world from a world of harshness to a world of compassion, from a world of ignorance to a world of enlightenment, from a world of death to a world of life renewed, and from a world where sin destroys us to a world where we destroy sin.” – Prayer Un’taneh Tokef

The following are essential in my journey:

Solitude: Really unplugging from the part of myself that can get distracted by the outside world…both good and bad

Time: To allow my creative artist/writer to emerge without pressure

Deep Spiritual Practice: This is what plugs me into the Divine Mind and lifts me up to expanded realities.

Compassion and Forgiveness: Softening my heart towards myself and others.

Letting Go: Releasing what no longer serves me and the “old stories” I cling to.

Belief in a Positive Future: Hope that will pull me forward no matter what the outer reality is.

Small Structured Action Steps: Building new neural pathways in my brain to allow my new foundation to be solid.

Joy and Fun: Freeing my spontaneous joyful child to think out of the box and enjoy life.

Knowing When to Ask for Help: We are co-creating this life together and each one of us has gifts and talents to share with others.

And on that note…we are looking for a wonderful new space to host VISION 2020 from January 17-19th. It would need to comfortably accommodate 40+ people and be close to public transportation. If you have any suggestions please send them to shakima@barbarabiziou.com.

Work with Barbara

The energy in the world is moving faster and faster and each one of us needs tools to stay calm and focused. Work with Barbara to discover practical rituals and techniques to ground you and give you the clarity and focus you need to move forward at this time. Contact barbara@barbarabiziou.com for details!

Many Blessings,

Barbara

Remaining Resilient in the Face of Adversity

My favorite thing to do in the summer is swim in the ocean, so the fact that I was asked to leave because of a Great White Shark sighting this weekend was disconcerting to say the least. Was this a Jaw’s Summer?

Strangely, no one seemed to panic. Everyone left the ocean and milled around the beach until the lifeguard said it was safe to swim again.

Then when I got back to my friend’s house in Brewster, we discovered that NYC had suffered a black out. Again, I was pleasantly surprised to see that most people were calm and dealing as well as could be expected in the hot humid weather. And many of the Broadway Shows took their music to the streets and played for the audiences that had to leave the theaters.

So how do we remain resilient in the face of adversity?

Pay attention and be present

Look at these roadblocks as temporary. This too shall pass is a good attitude that will allow you to remain hopeful that things will get better.

Find the joy in the present. Take a lesson from the cast of Hadestown, Come from Away and others who serenaded the crowds.

Breathe!!! Do what helps you bi-pass the stress signals in your brain.

Remember that our emotions are contagious. If we remain calm, it is easier for others to stay calm. Panic creates panic. Happiness creates more happiness.

Work with Barbara

Due to my travel schedule, I have limited availability for private clients in July, however you can always check with my office for specific dates. I do have a few appointments available July 30th and July 31st in-person in LA and via Skype. Contact barbara@barbarabiziou.com to book.

Many Blessings,

Barbara

Summer is Here!

“Set your life on fire! Seek those who fan your flames.” – Rumi

Okay, I admit it! I love doing fire rituals. Whenever I personally feel stuck or my loud inner critic begins to scream at me, I write down all the thoughts in my head and then light the paper with a match! These burnt offerings give me an instant sense of purification, transformation, completion, and peace.

Fire can heat us up, burn us down, or ignite and transform us like no other element. When out of control, fire is destructive; but when it’s contained, it can ignite our passions and fuel the highest forms of creativity. The ancients understood the extraordinary power of fire when they first discovered that this great element can cook food, weld steel, and even melt glass.

Have you ever felt dull? bored? As if nothing in your life was interesting or exciting? We all have times when things feel flat or look gray. As we move into the Summer Solstice, try this exercise to connect you to this amazing element and turn up the heat in your life.

Solar Power

Step One: Check a daily sunrise/sunset calendar for your current location. Go outside to watch the sunrise; if possible, place your bare feet on the ground or in grass while you’re watching.

Step Two: As you watch the rays of the morning sun, feel them activating your own heart flame (the sacred fire that lives inside your heart). Allow a feeling of warmth and vitality to fill you up. Sense the expansion of your heart.

Step Three: Now, imagine that this powerful sunlight is moving into every aspect of your life—into your relationships, your projects, and your deepest longings and wildest dreams. Feel the element of fire continue to illuminate your heart like the sun illuminates the Earth.

Step Four: As you go about your day, imagine that you can focus the radiance of the solar light you absorbed into any situation that you face. Imagine beaming your radiant light into the hearts and minds of anyone who needs it.

Work with Barbara

Some things you can change yourself and some things require help. I am available to guide you through all of life’s transitions through practical spiritual techniques, tarot reading and private rituals. Whether you are looking to re-invent yourself, create a new business, clear old stuck energy, find a fulfilling relationship or start a family, this may be just what you need to move forward now. Sessions are in person or via Skype or FaceTime. Contact me at barbara@barbarabiziou.com or 212-741-3358 for details.

I’ll also be in LA July 24th – August 2nd if you are on the West coast and would like to work in person.

Stock up on my magical aromatherapy sprays for the summer! These sprays were specially designed to instantly change the energy around you. I use them daily in my personal life and practice and my clients rave about their potent effects. Grab yours here!

Many Blessings,

Barbara

Stop Living in Your past Story!

As I was working with my new Gyrotonic’s Trainer, I felt my body tense up. I was recovering from a back injury and my body was fearful.

“It is a process” Martin said. “Be gentle with yourself. Your body is just remembering the past trauma, but it is not your current reality. It is only a memory.”

Wow, that resonated with me big time, since that is what I teach my clients in practice. Honor the past, but do not live there.

Are you living your past story or a new one that you are creating now?

Use this week to create a ritual to honor your old story and then let it go. You can write it down on a piece of paper and stamp it complete, burn it, shred it or write it on your tablet or computer and then press delete.

Even in the Bible it says, “And it came to pass…” It doesn’t say, “And it came to stay”. Life is about change and transition.

Work with Barbara

Some things you can change yourself and some things require help. I am available to guide you through all of life’s transitions through practical spiritual techniques, tarot reading and private rituals. Whether you are looking to re-invent yourself, create a new business, clear old stuck energy, find a fulfilling relationship or start a family, this may be just what you need to move forward now. Sessions are in person or via Skype or FaceTime. Contact me at barbara@barbarabiziou.com or 212-741-3358 for details.

I’ll also be in LA July 24th – August 2nd if you are on the west coast and would like to work in person.

Stock up on my magical aromatherapy sprays for the summer! These sprays were specially designed to instantly change the energy around you. I use them daily in my personal life and practice and my clients rave about their potent effects. Grab yours here!

Many Blessings,

Barbara

What Do You Need to Let Go Of?

Storytelling is the oldest ritual in the world and today I want to share one of my favorite ones with you.

Two monks were traveling together and came to a river with a very strong current. They began to cross to the other side, but they noticed a young woman trying to cross who needed help. She asked them to assist her.

The two monks glanced at one another because they had taken vows not to touch a woman.

Then, without a word, the older monk picked up the woman, carried her across the river, placed her gently on the other side, and carried on with his 
journey.

The younger monk couldn’t believe that the older monk had actually touched a woman. After walking for a few hours, he blurted out, “how could you have touched a woman when we are forbidden from having contact with any women?”

The older monk looked at him and replied, “Brother, I set her down on the other side of the river, why are you still carrying her?”

How many of us are still carrying around past hurts, anger, sadness and resentment? Now is a time to choose to lighten up and move on without the heaviness of the past. You may be able to do this alone or you may need help, but I find that without letting go, the one we are really hurting is ourself.

Work with Barbara

This is a perfect time to get clarity on what is weighing you down. Discover where in your life you need healing and open up to new opportunities in a personal Tarot session and/or private ritual.

Contact barbara@barbarabiziou.com to book your coaching session or private ritual today.

Many Blessings,

Barbara

You Become What Your Attention Is upon…

One of the most important things we can do during these times of chaos is to harmonize our own thoughts and feelings. Yes, we all know that the only person we can change is ourselves, yet we still insist on trying to control others without first focusing on ourselves.

Today I want to share with you a technique that I have practiced for over 25 years and have taught to thousands of people. It is a simple, yet powerful tool to gain mastery over your mind.

When you feel like you’re spinning out negative thoughts and emotions, it is your signal that the outer world is intruding to demand attention and it is in your power to command it to be silent.

As I have shared many times, whenever you qualify the words I AM , you set in motion the powerful presence of God. I AM is God in action.

Here is a powerful way to take control of your mind and bring harmony and balance into your life.

Work with Barbara

Are you ready to release stress and anxiety? Need clarity and an expanded vision? Now is the perfect time to set up a private session with Barbara.

Contact barbara@barbarabiziou.com to book your coaching session or private ritual today.

Many Blessings,

Barbara