I love how Colette Baron-Reid described 2019 - ”Like being caught in a snow globe and having some big green giant alien shaking it while you are trying unsuccessfully to hold on to your world while watching everything get turned upside down.”
That being said, I have been contemplating what really creates change and transformation. As I threw cards for myself this year, a pattern appeared that I want to share with you.
You need peace of mind: it is important to find ways to deal with worry, fear and over-analyzing. If we move into “what if” and “if only”, our energy drops and we don’t have the clarity or energy to create what we most desire.
Let go of the old outdated forms. Yes, sometimes it is challenging to say, “this is over”, however you cannot outperform your old self-image of yourself, your business or your creative projects. The past is over.
Having strong boundaries. This one has been topping my list. When I don’t honor my boundaries and go into an over-giving pattern, I become drained and depleted. Then all I want to do is stay in bed binging Netflix.
Radical Self Care. The more things change, the more it is important to take care of basics like sleep, exercise, healthy eating and meaningful connections.
Fun. This goes with self-care. I know that many times I am just too serious and need the magic and wonder of simply having a good belly laugh, playing and expressing the silly part of me.
In moments of doubt and confusion - wait. Without quiet and contemplation, I do not have the resources or true guidance I need to move forward. Then I tend to ask too many people’s opinions which can create more confusion.
Have a strategic plan; you can always adjust later, however being organized and systematic really helps move you forward. Set achievable goals and then acknowledge the successes. Whenever you set intention and then succeed, you increase your brain’s awareness of your ability to create success. It does not matter if they are small or large successes.
Find support - stretch outside of your comfort network. You are who you surround yourself with. Let go of being dysfunctionally independent. By the way, your friends may not be the best people to advise you, so expand your network.
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Many Blessings,
Barbara