The end of February was always a time to celebrate my parents’ birthdays–February 26th for my Dad and February 28th for my Mom. Although my mother never liked anyone to know how old she was, she still liked to celebrate.
So, this week I will be creating a special ritual for my parents.
Honoring and Acknowledging ancestors is a tradition that has been alive and well for thousands of years. It is understood that the ancestors live within you. By acknowledging the past generations (even if you have never met them), you forge a bond with your spiritual lineage.
I will discuss the science of epigenetics and breaking negative family patterns another time, but for now, let us see how we can honor our ancestors. And I do believe that our ancestors do learn and grow and can become their best selves once they have passed on. That is why we offer prayers and do rituals for our ancestors.
Remember, even if you had a dysfunctional childhood, your ancestors gave you the gift of life. And that is very precious.
Create an Altar: This is a way to create a sacred space in your home. Place a photo of your ancestors on the altar. Include symbols of their lives - maybe you have a special candle holder that belonged to your grandmother, piano music that your grandfather played, a ring that your father wore, and/or your mother’s favorite earrings.
Alternatively, you may include symbols that represent where your ancestors originally came from: sand from the desert, a bowl of water if they lived near the ocean, photos of the countries they came from.
Include their favorite food or drink: I like to put a bar of halvah that my dad loved or some scotch that my mother enjoyed when the sun was setting.
Include flowers and incense if that is something that will uplift you. Smelling gardenias always reminds me of my mother and makes me smile.
Light a candle and from your heart, offer up prayers to your ancestors. If possible, open up your heart to forgiving them for anything they did consciously or unconsciously that has harmed you in any way. Ask for forgiveness if you have harmed them in any way by your words , deeds or actions.
Open to receiving back healing, wisdom, and blessings. When the flowers begin to fade, offer them to the earth along with any food from the ritual.
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We are moving into a new season, and it is a great time for a space clearing, tarot reading for clarity, or a ritual to move you forward.
Some of my most popular rituals include blessing a space, birthday rituals, midlife celebration (Queening ceremony), launching a new project, healing from loss, releasing ancestral karma, calling in love and/or a baby and more.
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Until next time,
Barbara